This week’s challenge is
“Musical”. I really had to struggle to
come up with a
subject for this week’s challenge. There’s just not a lot of known musical
talent in my family’s history. Then I
remembered stories about “Aunt Bess”.
Estelle Elizabeth Ferrel was born on the 17th of August in 1880 in Terre Haute, Indiana to William and Mollie Carpenter
Ferrel. She was the youngest of four
children and was known as "Bess".
Bess was my great-grandmother’s sister.
It’s unclear if Bess graduated from
St. Mary's of the Woods College, or attended there, but she taught piano and
violin there through-out her life. In the 1910
Terre Haute Census, Bess was listed as “Musician Church Work”. An article found in The Indianapolis News from May 29, 1915 stated that “Miss Bessie
Ferrel, of Terre Haute, played several violin solos…” at the Brazil (Indiana)
Ladies’ Literary Society of Brazil meeting that occurred that month.
When Bess was nineteen years old her
older,and only,sister died (in 1899).
Bess’mother died in 1916, and Bess remained at home to care for her
father until his death in March of 1924. Sadly, a brother of Bess died in
November of 1924 in a tragic accident. This left Bess with only one other brother living.
In June of 1925, at the age of
forty-four, Bess married widower Augustus Ballard. Augustus had a six year old daughter, Eleanor
Mae, who Bess adopted.
Tragedy struck Bess again when her
husband Augustus died in 1938 at the age of fifty-seven. She and daughter Eleanor were listed in the
1940 Terre Haute census, both with no income or occupations listed. Bess told her nephew that she had a small
pension from her husband’s job as a street car conductor, so she must have been
living on that, along with giving music lessons. She gave both piano and violin lessons to her
great-niece, who remembers her as “eccentric to put it mildly.” She remembered that Bess was extremely
protective of her hands and would cover her arms with at least one pair of
socks for fear sunlight might touch her skin.
Bess’ daughter Eleanor married in
1948. Bess’ brother, Scott, was widowed
in 1950. When he became ill, Bess took
him into her home and cared for him until he died in 1954. When he died, Bess was almost in
poverty. His will had not been changed
after his wife's death and no money was left to Aunt Bess. Her great niece and great nephew went to an
attorney and challenged the will and got some money for Bess.
Newspaper articles that I found show that
Bess lived at 1923 Garfield in Terre Haute and as she aged a couple of
accidents and robberies were listed under her name. She fell on ice in 1951 at the age of seventy,
and was struck by a car in 1959 at the age of seventy-nine. The robberies
reported were rather odd and make me wonder if she had some dementia (underwear
stolen off her line, a four year old tree was stolen). Or perhaps the elderly widow was just taken
advantage of by others. In a letter
found that was written in 1961, she wrote of being robbed by family and no one
believing her, even her attorney. A
postcard was found that was sent to my aunt from Logansport State Hospital in
Indiana stating that her Christmas gift to Elizabeth Ballard had been received.
Aunt Bess died in 1965. I assume that she died at the state hospital
and I am trying to learn more about her death.
She and her husband are buried in Terre Haute near her parents.
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